Why due diligence and mutual vetting are the most overlooked steps for newcomers in the scene. ✨

Good afternoon queens and my sweet boys.

I’ve been thinking a lot today about why so many newbie submissives burn out and leave the community so quickly. More often than not, it's because they rush in blindly and fall into the trap of toxic accounts, scammers, and fraudsters who don't care about real dynamics.

Vetting is a strict requirement on both sides. If you are looking to serve, you need to look around thoroughly. Check a Domme's posts, her text replies, and her humour. Perfection doesn't exist because we are all human beings with unique personalities, but you must be able to hold a normal, conversation alongside the kink.

True servitude is about quality, communication, and sustainability, as well as being able to adjust and tweak yourself for the better (of course not in an extreme way unless you are into that). 🤍