Sex is boring and it's not worth it

It's awkward and difficult, physically exhausting, it has those small but cumulative moments of clumsiness, it's a hazzle

That's just the moment alone, the anxiety before hand makes it even worse. The clumsy way two people undress, trying to be polite but also firm, how since it's the first time they have to stop to kiss, remove a piece of clothing, socks, shoelaces. Depending on how attracted you were to this person you will start to notice very human and natural "flaws", things you thought wouldn't mind but they kind of do

There's a thrill in the chase that gets lost once you get to that moment, it's almost anti climatic. Every single attractive person has that one physical imperfection/personality flaw that will only grow once the initial infatuation is gone

Yes, sure, sex with a long time partner eliminates all of that, if you haven't fall into a routine then it loses the excitement, it becomes a routine, and you finish. You don't experience it, you just finish, like a chore, so you can dress and make her something to eat, watch a movie, go out for a walk, make dumb jokes, do a lot of things that you find more satisfying and meaningful than sex

I'm probably depressed tho, so maybe my view of the problem is a bit skewed