F25 BF gave me this account and asked me to explore reddit and be myself. So here goes nothing...

Pear shaped body issues anyone? How do you handle the creeps and the clothing issues?😭

I recently moved from a very small, conservative town to blr for work. It’s been a massive culture shock, and honestly, I don’t really have friends to talk to being an introvert.

I’ve always been super self-conscious about myself. I’m quite slim up top with an average build, but my lower half is… a lot. To be completely blunt, my a$$ is just kinda big and plump(I FEEL, cuz its subjective), and it drives me mad that it cant get smaller. I absolutely hate the idea of being sexualised or noticed for the wrong reasons. I don’t want to be that girl at the office, you know? And tbh its not just the a$$ my thighs are a problem too

Because of this, I strictly wear very loose, modest, and traditional clothes to completely hide my 'things' hoping that people dont know about the size otherwise the sexualisation might happen more. But I still feel so paranoid every single day. And I hated the creepy stares when I wore something a bit too tight once, it just scares me. I've had some really creepy incidents happen with me too. in the past when i was kinda young

I wonder if guys can actually still tell what’s hidden behind loose or traditional clothes? If we walk past each other in office or if we meet for a date first time, is it still obvious? And if yes… how can they tell, and is there a way I can style myself to avoid it completely and not be know for 'IT"?

I'm already super embarrassed about asking this but one last thing - WHILE RIDING WHY IS IT THAT MY ASS IS LITERALLY HITTING MY BFs BALLS EVERYTIME LITERALLY CRUSHING THEM(he says). IS IT ME OR HIM? He's always complaining about it and we are both kinda inexperienced.