40 [m4f] I’m a mess of contradictions #edt

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This might be a little rambling, but aren’t you tired of the same old posts? I’m trying to describe myself for my own post here, I kept coming across contradictory characteristics. So I’m just going to embrace them, and maybe you will too.

I contradictory, but I’m self aware. I’m moody, but I’m in touch with my feelings. I’m attracted to smart women who can dish it out, but also a shy quiet girl too. I can be vain, but also dress down most days. I’m brimming with confidence, but insecure in many ways. My life is extremely complicated but in some ways simple. I go to therapy and take my mental health seriously, but then do things like post here. I’m an open book, but I keep secrets.

Are there any basic things you should know? 2 kids, 4 pets, so I’m a dad and an animal lover. Married for almost 17 years, so I’m a little restless I guess. 5’6” for those who like to ask. Average build. A nerd at heart. An amateur photographer. Green eyes behind glasses, full head of graying brown hair, no beard. A cute dimple.

If all that sounds… intriguing? Don’t hesitate and message me. I’m avoiding work today and am eager to get to know you.

*notabot

Posted Jul 30, 2026, 2:09 PM UTC

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