Am I being too sensitive about what our couples therapist said?

My wife and I are in the process of trying to repair our marriage after I was unfaithful to her many years ago. I’ve been asking her to go to marriage therapy for years to try to heal since I really want to repair what I’ve broken. She finally agreed to try a therapist a few weeks ago, and we just had our second session with a therapist that we both seem to like so far.

However, something the therapist said in this session has me questioning my feelings a bit. My wife brought up how she’s struggling to move forward in the healing process since she’s afraid of being made to look like a fool. The therapist asked her to expound on that and she said that she already feels like a bit of a fool for not divorcing me, and she’s scared/anxious about me hurting her again, which would really make her look like a fool since she had so many people telling her to leave me and saying the classic “once a cheater, always a cheater.”

The therapist’s response to this was to pose a hypothetical. She said “wife, let’s just assume for a second that your husband confirmed your fears and cheated on you again. He crossed a line and you divorce him. I’m not saying that’s going to happen, but if it did, who would actually be the fool? HE would be the fool for cheating again after you took him back, not you. And can you imagine what it would be like for him if he tried to date someone after divorce and he had to explain what he did to his wife? I don’t know of any woman who would be lining up to date a loser like that.”

I can definitely see what she was trying to communicate to my wife, and I’m open to being challenged around the pain and impact of my betrayal, but am I being too sensitive in feeling like that was a bit of a dig at me?

I talked to my therapist about it and he had many thoughts and a suggestion for me, but I want to get an even more unbiased opinion as I try to think through this.