27 [M4F] Sheffield - looking for a date and connections before everything else

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Hi everyone, dating apps don't really work for me so I decided to post on what I believe is everyone's last resort - reddit.

Anyway, I'm a 27 M that lives in Sheffield but I am originally from Croatia, and I am looking for a date, connections and seeing where things go, no need to label everything. I really love connecting with people deeply, and then seeing if we would work best as friends, as fwb, as a couple... I just really like seeing if there is a connection between us.

Some things about me are that I love going to the gym, listening to metal music, watching horror and I have a fascination with the macabre, travelling, gaming, clubbing (mainly Corporation) and reading. I do have mental health issues: depression, anxiety and OCD. But this is something I am trying to work on and I go to therapy, so I don't expect you to do emotional labour for me (but it would be nice if you want to work on these things with me, together).

I also really want to be someone's "rock", where I am emotionally available for the person and I want them to know that they can come to me for anything they need and that I will always be here for them. I understand that this might take time though, and I am fine with that. And I also want the other person to reciprocate and be here for me too. I'm just a very emotionally available, emotionally intelligent, empathetic deep loving big hearted sensitive man :D.

Physically, I am 6ft tall, have blue eyes and short brown hair and I do have a lean body. I do want to be even leaner and stronger, but I just started going to the gym around 7 months ago, so it might take a bit of time still.

About you: live in or close to Sheffield, be 20+ and ideally a woman, altho I wouldn't be opposed to dating men that have a really feminine appearance. Common interests are a plus but not a necessity, as opposites attract too.

Also, ideally your libido would be on the same or a similar level as mine, which is high, since to me, sex is important, it is not the most important thing, but it is important to strengthen the relationship, and I want to "please" the person that I care about and that I am dating, I want to make them feel good. This might sound shallow but I just want to put it out there. Also, just be nice, understanding and compassionate.

Anyway, if this post resonates with you, shoot your shot and send me a DM! Also, attraction is important, so I would like to exchange selfies soon after we start talking. It's not the most important thing, but it is important, it's the first thing you see.

Take care everyone <3.