The “Do not pass Go”… of Dating

I enjoy cooking, but I hate doing dishes after all the effort. So if I invite someone over and I cook for them, if they don’t volunteer to do the dishes, just jump in or handle them but instead just sit on the couch or watch me do everything. It’s over. They aren’t getting any that night and once they are out the door I’m just completely done. I’m looking for a partner. Having to tell someone to do the basic decent thing such as helping me clean after I slaved away in the kitchen, is a turn off. It’s almost like an ick.

So when everyone is dating and you’re letting someone into your home for the first time. What really shuts you off from them?