I (F24) might be inconsiderate with this guy.. (M24) You tell me?
So i’ve been texting with this guy from tinder. We’ve had eachother’s # and snapchat. Couple weeks ago we started talking more to the point that i started to care about the amount of communication we have. I ended up telling him straight on, if he doesn’t communicate with me or put in effort to talk to me then i’m going to lose interest and he apologized and said he’ll try because he recently got promoted so there are changes on his end. Maybe im being inconsiderate about it because it started with him sleeping more after work and being tired (he would say) and i’ve always been the person to say "if they wanted to, they would"
He said he would fix it and i feel like he’s gotten a little better but little white lies trickle in. Like i might call him and he’ll be like "i want to call you tomorrow" like making this out to be like a 360, no call and i ignore that fact. I feel like when we’re on the phone, he will make it out to be like im special and im the best thing since sliced bread but the effort isn’t there. Im also kinda petty or annoying and will mention how we barely talk and i just feel like at this point im forcing it. Again, idk if im just rushing it and not giving him time or what.
It feels like im pushing it and he’s sweet, he’s never bad mouthed me so idk :/
Posted Aug 1, 2026, 3:43 AM UTC