I feel emasculated by another transmasc

I hate feeling like I’m falling into toxic masculinity thinking but I struggle a lot with jealousy and feeling insecure.

Recently another transmasc walked me and my partner to our car and for some reason I found it insulting or annoying and triggered insecure thoughts.

I tried to remind myself that my values are more about connection, friendship and relational anarchy and we should all wanna walk and be walked to our car my our friends etc but idk I still feel annoyed. He often makes me feel insecure in other ways with my partner so there’s already a history of jealousy on my end.

Trying to decide how to feel about this 😂