Men give more sensual blowjobs than the women I've been with

I consider myself straight. Only been in relationships with women, but I occasionally like hooking up with guys. It just seems they are more excited to bottom for me than women. I got a decently big dick, and some women I've been with are intimidated by this but really twinks on Grindr are really excited and horny over giving blowjobs and letting me dom

This is a random question, but as I'm not a bottom, I'd like to understand the reason why gay guys are really accommodative to remembering what patterns give me the most pleasure and saying the right words. I typically prefer twinks and whatnot. It seems like gay guys smile a lot more and say a lot more things to get me in the mood. Complimenting my dick really gives me a lot of good self esteem. What's your guys' thoughts?