I lost a few brain cells by trying to defend myself here

Even if you post good things and qualities about yourself, people bring you down by saying it's the bare minimum.

Even if you post bad qualities, they would say Hope this type of man would never find me.

Even if you say the right thing, they'll trick you with their words just to prove you wrong.

So basically, whatever you do, at the end of the day, people will bring you down.