Shenanigans from the spouse
Howdy folks,
The spouse repeatedly disables my access to the garage door remote control, disables the electricity and WIFI to certain smart devices that I use, moves/confiscates/threw a security in shared space and in my private room. On a few occasion, she tried to force her way into my private restroom while I was showering, and into my private room while I was sleeping. Both times she failed due to a barricade device.
She stopped doing the sleep depreciation tactics on me because that hurts her as well. She also stopped setting up roadblocks on the way to my room.
The yelling and slamming of doors has stopped because I completely ignore her for my own safety.
She has threatened to sell my car and our home without our permission.
She is trying to bait me into making an uncharacteristic reaction.
Besides serving divorce notice, what can I do to stop this? I'm sleeping in my car half the time because of the chaos at home which I pay for. I am speaking with counsellors, church leaders, domestic abuse resources, and lawyers. I hope to have a lawyer retained soon.
Thanks.
Posted Aug 1, 2026, 3:51 AM UTC