Drained with my relationship, its starting to affect how I treat her and honestly I dont know if I still want to be in this relationship.
For the past month or two, I haven't been feeling the same way about my girlfriend. It feels like my love for her has been fading. I still love her, but it doesn't feel the same anymore. Our relationship feels tired.
Honestly, we've never really felt compatible. From the very beginning, we've always been butting heads over our needs in the relationship.
From my perspective, it feels like I'm always the one putting in the effort. I try my best to be there for her, but when I'm the one who needs someone, she often gets annoyed with me because the reassurance she gives doesn't work for me. Eventually, she leaves me to deal with my feelings on my own.
I've put so much effort into being a good boyfriend. She tells me I am one, but honestly, the way she treats me makes it feel like nothing I do is ever enough. More than anything, I don't feel the warmth she used to have for me.
I've already communicated all of this to her recently, but I'm incredibly drained, and I genuinely need advice on what my next course of action should be.
Posted Aug 1, 2026, 3:52 AM UTC