I’m a young and inexperienced man with a woman in her 60s, and I’m looking for some sound advice.

I’m 23 years old, and I’m in a committed, exclusive, and deeply romantic relationship with a woman in her 60s. I never thought that I would be in a relationship with an age gap like this, but love happens. We’re not interested in getting married (she’s divorced), but are in this for the long haul. We started having sex last week after our first “I love yous,” and she took my virginity.

It was very enjoyable, and I was obviously very excited and “finished” pretty quickly, but we continued for many sessions. I’m happy to say I made her orgasm several times, and she was also laughing at the excitement in my noises and movements which she said brought her joy. She said it was very pleasurable to see how quickly she sends me over the edge, as well as the contrast in our bodies. I’m about a foot taller than her and go to the gym, and it was nice to hear compliments about my body from a woman. Personally, it was the most intense experience of my life. I feel like our souls touched.

I’m hoping to get some advice from more experienced people in her age group on how I can be a great sexual partner to her as a much younger man. What would you do in my shoes?

Posted Aug 1, 2026, 3:53 AM UTC

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