If I see one more comment about sleeping around...

i hate slutshaming. i hate it so fucking much. why must people have one partner their whole life? why can't a person sleep around? why would you judge them for that??? sleeping around doesn't define someone. sex (and romance by extension ig) aren't the only things in life. get over yourself. why is their any limit? i'm not at an age for sex but who cares if someone had one night stands all the time? or flies through partners like sticky notes? that's not the only way to show commitment. some people don't want to commit to romance and that's OKAY.

everytime i see someone slutshame, i just want to mention aro-spec peeps. but i don't, bc honestly alloros shouldn't be subject to slutshaming either. even if someone does feel/care about romance a lot, why's it matter that they've slept with many people beforehand? it's not your business, is it? it's their life and their lifestyle; why you've gotta shame them for it.

i hate it. ew. i just. ughhhhh. why are relationships always the center of the world?