My mom sabotages my diet

My mother has a history of messing up mine and my brother’s diets, of not following them ecc..

Today I’m starting a new diet and did not make it to lunch, because? BECAUSE THAT BITCH ALWAYS WANTS TO HAVE A SAY IN IT.

I went to cook for myself and she whined about wanting the same dish I was cooking. I said I would do it without any problem.

As the water boiled me and my mother went outside because our dog had escaped and we wanted to see where was the hole to close it and prevent our dogs from running into the street.

As we get back inside, I literally turn around just to close the door ( the kitchen is right next to the door ) and she rushes to the pot and throws in some pasta while complaining about the fact that I did not turn the kitchen hood yet.

I realize this only when I look into the pot and this made me upset because in a diet you have measures and I had to weight the pasta.

I tell her so and she tells me it’s no big deal and that I can just weight it afterwards before saying “You HAVE to weight the pasta when it’s cooked”.

SIDE NOTE: This was the straw that broke the camel's back after years of my mom messing things up ( I have a lot of issues with food and my weight which maybe I’ll further explain the comments ). In my diet, the pasta had to be weighted beforehand, my mother knew this because it was written in the diet, the doctor told her 100 times, I repeatedly told her. This messes up the diet a lot because in this particular case the grams double, so no shit that later I feel hungry and cannot follow my diet.

Now I’m on my bed and waiting for her to finish eating so later I can cook my dish, SHE NEEDS TO FUCKING HURRY because we have to get out of the house at 14:15 for some appointments. WHY COULDN’T SHE JUST STICK HER HANDS IN HER ASS INSTEAD OF TOUCHING THE PAN

Some side notes to make clear some things because due to some past rents I know what people will focus on:
- I think it is clear that me and my mother have a lot of problems between ourselves, mostly because she doesn’t respect me ( same thing with my brother ). As I said in the side note, this is just a “small” thing but it’s upsetting because my mom simply cannot respect others

- The house we live in is mine and my brother’s, we do not kick her out because she raised us BUT also because we have some laws that not allow us to do that

- The dogs hole was a quick thing, like just a matter of moving a brick from one side to the other