How to open?

Earlier I used to mass approach and go for inside groups I mentioned above, even I knew it wouldn’t go anywhere. It was back then just training to get rid of approach anxiety and expand my comfort zone. Now I only approach these who I know I would have chances, like not jumping on those inside circles.

Examples of how to open conversation:

• “Hello, how’s your night going so far? you are cute btw”
• “Hi you are hot, wanna dance?”
• “You are both cute, how’s your night?”
• “You have a lighter” [she gives a light] “Thx, you are cute btw, I’m …[hand shake]”

Showing your intentions right away that you are attracted to her and want to fuck her. Not some indirect opening lines where she may think you just want to have a conversation with her. It’s not a desperate move to compliment her, at least when you aren’t doing it too much.

On club environment it’s all about you want to fuck. The earlier you show your intentions, the better. She will anyway decide on the first few minutes of your encounter either she will fuck you or not. So it’s just better to make clear that you are the Man who do what he want’s and is confident enough to be straight about this. Not playing some stupid games. There is no need for games if she wants to fuck you.

After opening, have a little small talk. Somewhere around 5-15 minutes is good enough time of talking. Then you start escalating physically and building the sexual tension. It isn’t necessary to have a step by step escalating routine, example first slowly touching her arm, then knee, then hug her, then make out and so on. You can still get laid even zero escalating, but this kind of physical escalating is like foreplay and you can read either she is willing to have a sex with you.

If she rejects your attempt to go for make out, don’t piss off. Take it cool and have a little humor and self irony, like: ”Haha, sorry I was too quick to take things further” or ”Haha, sorry I’m too aggressive, but you are too hot so I can’t resist”.

Continue small talk, tease her playfully. Remember to have an eye contact, this greatly builds the sexual tension between you. Now try again afterwards, if she rejects again, repeat. Continue a while, if you see that things aren’t going anywhere and she isn’t interested to make out, just leave politely. Maybe ask her phonenumber for date (Some girls aren’t doing make outs with strangers at the same night, but are willing to fuck on the dates).

If she approves your attempt to make out, it’s all in your hands now. Keep making out passionately, tease her, take her maybe to dancefloor and do some dirty dancing with her. Keep it physical all the time from there, example grab her hand when you are walking from one place to other. It’s physical game, and the more you are at physical contact, the more she is comfortable to be around you and is sexually interested. It warms her up.

At some point ask where is the after party, and suggest either of your places. Again, if she is not ready yet to leave bar with you and go for your/her place, keep doing what you did before and build more the sexual tension. And ask again later.

When she agrees, you have succeeded. Have a fun and remember to have a safe sex! If you want to go hardcore, you can ask straight for sex in the nearest toilet. All this takes is about 15-60 minutes. I usually won’t bother to be with girl over hour if it looks like things aren’t going nowhere, unless the girl is super cool and I would like to take her to date.

But what if she rejects me in the first 10 seconds? Don’t worry, this is usual. Just go for new girl and do steps above. It’s not a rocket science, shortly and simply the steps are this:

1. Approach and make your intentions clear

2. If she rejects, go back to step 1. If she don’t reject, go to step 3.

3. Have a small talk, example ask where she’s from, how’s her night been this far, do she go this place often. The topic can be whatever as long as you keep it playful and tease her.

4. After few minutes escalate physically. Depending where you are, example if you sit next to her, pull her against you. If you are standing and you have balls to pull your hand over her hip, go for it. Remember to not force it if she refuses. If you are not confident enough to directly escalate, ask her to dance floor. That’s a good place to escalate and go for make outs.

5. Ask directly to place for after party aka sex. If she disagree, back to step 4. If she disagree again and looks like things aren’t going nowhere, back to step 1. Otherwise,congratulations!

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