26F, Looking for old-school love in this generation of situationships and breadcrumbing!

Hi. 26F Hindu Brahmin here. 5’5”, living in Lucknow right now and working as an Assistant Professor in a Government Degree college. Since it’s a Government job and I won’t be able to move outside UP, I would love to settle in Lucknow itself later in life. Really nervous as it is my first time posting on this sub and I don’t really know how to go about it but I’ll try.
So I just want to put it out here. I want to date for a while with the intention to marry. If history, literature and crime thrillers interest you, you’d probably like talking to me. I want someone kind and humble, it’d be great if you’re based in Lucknow but definitely not a must. Preferably taller than me, though I am not looking for the typical atleast 6 feet requirement. Please don’t dm me saying send photos as the first message, for there is a high chance you’d not get a reply. Also I’m the elder daughter so I would be taking care of my parents and would want to visit them often and that should not be a problem to you. There is no caste restriction as such if we get along well. Please don’t come at me for anything I am just blabbering at this point.