I have nothing going for my dating life what do I do

I 23m have always wanted to find my person get married and have children someday. I haven’t been in a relationship for over a year. I’ve had multiple relationships before and tried to learn from them.

I’m 6’5 I’ve often had insecurity issues about my appearance. I simply have felt like I’m not super attractive. I also think my standards have kinda changed some or rather what I’m looking for.

I don’t have much of a social life just a couple of friends I see from time to time every couple weeks or so. In college I used to have friends who were women. Since college the social life has essentially died.

Dating apps have been a disaster for me I get basically no attention and the women who do like me I don’t find attractive. Another issue I’ve ran into is a controversial thing. I have sex before marriage and desire that for compatibility reasons. I do believe in God but I’m not super religious.

I’ve also not been compatible liberal women. I don’t really care political affiliation I just prefer to not date liberals. I have before and we just fought a lot over petty politics. I just know I’d like to find love and frankly miss having a connection with someone. Any and all advice is much appreciated.