Don’t know what to do

Its been 3 weeks now, we are on and off.

I saw some texts and i lashed out even though texts we’re not flirty or etc etc, i lashed out and made her feel uncomfortable, she took an oath i didn’t believe her and broke up, 3 days later we talked i apologized and she came back, after 4 days she went and said she needs a breakup, my mom talked to her and she came back, then i asked her some questions and she gave irrelevant answers, i lashed out and broke up with her, i talked to her family, apologized and now she is not even listening to her family, she came, made my bed, cleaned toilet, and made food for me as she was going to family trip, i really want her as i love her but i have left her on her own, best advice from someone who has experienced seeing this and knows how to sort this out and do better.