Hate how my post ectopic TTC journey is being managed

I finally plucked up the courage to try for a baby, about 8 months after my ectopic and survey.

I’ve now been trying for 18 months and during that time, I’ve had every test under the sun for me and my husband. All results are fine other than the fact I have one tube and PCOS.

Not a single positive since my ectopic.

My HSG was fine and OBGYN put me on expectant management.
6 months later I still haven’t seen any change and I’ve only just been put on Letrozole after asking for it. That didn’t work so I told my OBGYN that I ovulate on my own anyway so is it really going to help? She said oh just let me know if/when you want an IVF referral.

I’m just annoyed that I’m in the driving seat for this journey. I want a doctor to tell me in black and white what my options are instead of keeping me like a sitting duck and wasting my time. I could’ve had my baby by now!