Am I expecting the bare minimum or too much?

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Girls,

I have a question to you.

How do you feel if a guy comes to a 1st date in tracks and tshirt after playing some sport?

Guys,

How can some one be so comfortable to go meet a girl for the 1st time in tracks after a game? I mean, kanesam bath is basic kada bros?

Matter enti ante

I matched with this guy on hinge, and we had some on and off convos for 3, 4 weeks and decided to meet.

So, mana brother game 7 ki avthadi, adi ayaka meet avdham anadu. Mrg epudo chepadu . He had whole day to decide or discuss about where to meet. But ledhu. (Meru adagachu, nen enduku cheyaledhu ani, but in my opinion, whosoever asks out, irrespective of gender, should initiate and plan. Its completely ok to discuss before planning)

I texted him to decide time and location, and actually got ready

Brother nak 7.45pm ki call chesi, ekadiki ravali ani aduguthunadu.

Location petu vastha anta. Em Location petali? Idk

First thing, kalavadaniki efforts petatledhu ani nak koncham interest pothundi, but he asked me multiple times for a catch up but I was busy. So, antha thakuva efforts petina, I was like, ekadunav , we will meet somewhere in btwn ani adiga.

Tanu, mall veldam , ne degarlo em untay ani adigi, ventane, oh, vadhu nen game adi una, I'm in tracks and tshirt

Let's meet somewhere else annadu

Nen manasu lo wtf anukoni, I called off the plan. Inkepudana kaludham, raincheck bro ani chepesa.

Papam hurt ayadu, Mali msg chesadu.

In my mind, fancy date em expect cheyatle, basic undali kada ani anipichindi.

So, nak apatnunchi koncham guilt feeling vasthundhi, last minute lo hand ichesa ani. I mean, he might have canceled some other plans to meet me ani

And, a part of me is like, mari intha low standards petkokudadhu naku nenu ani anipisthundhi.

Did I do the right thing? Nen btr ga e situation ela handle chesi undagalanu ? Is it common for men to show up this way? I mean, I did go on dates , but never had this sort of experience.

I really want to hear men's perspective

Posted Aug 3, 2026, 1:56 PM UTC

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