[M4F] 36 Year Old Nerdy Male Living In #Southern California Looking To Date Nerdy Female

I'm a 36 yo man living in Buena Park, I'm a heavy gentleman, tho I've been told I carry my weight well and I don't think I'm unattractive. I have a small house that I've been living in for going onto six years now. I'm an avid gardener, cook, and baker, I've recently took up canning food since my garden has been overly abundant with its harvests this season. As the title says, I'm a nerdy person that goes to conventions (Comic-Con, ALA, etc.) and cosplay with friends. I'm a huge fan of games (video, board, ttrpg, and war gaming) and frequently play almost every weekend something. That being said I believe in balance and being active with working out at home (I have some gym equipment in the garage) and going hiking (when its not stupid hot out). I love being in nature when I'm able to, I'd love to take you out on a walk in a park with coffee or tea to get to know one another.

I'm looking for a lady who has similar (not exact) interests as myself and enjoys gaming like myself. I'm child free and am looking for the same from you. I can be a lil bit picky with whom I'd like to date, so I apologize if I'm not interested after we share photos and I respect/expect the same from you.

If you're interested please feel free to reach out via DMs.

Posted Aug 3, 2026, 2:01 PM UTC

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