WEEKLY REMINDER — August 03, 2026
Weekly Post: Quick Reminders from the Mods
Hey everyone,
Hope you're all having a good one. r/HEM_NSFW exists for real talk about the hobby, and we want it to stay enjoyable, welcoming, and useful for everyone involved. Here's the important stuff to keep in mind so we can all keep having a good time here.
Our Commitment
We are committed to keeping r/HEM_NSFW an enjoyable, welcoming, and useful space for everyone who loves this hobby. We strictly adhere to our Code of Conduct.
That means we expect respectful communication at all times, no gatekeeping, and genuine support for both new and experienced members. Providers are treated as equal participants, and we keep discussions focused on helpful information rather than drama or negativity.
This is what makes the community worth coming back to.
Be cool to each other. No trolling, insults, or turning threads into drama.
The Wiki
Our wiki at https://happyendings.fyi/ is the main resource for this community. It covers the rules, how to read signals from providers, ad checking, common scams, sexual health info, what to do if you get busted, and much more.
Read it before posting.
The 4HEM Rule
Read the rules and the wiki before you post or comment. "I didn't know" isn't an excuse here.
Drop 4HEM at the end of every post. It's your way of showing you've read everything and you're good to follow the guidelines.
28-Day Ban on Certain Rules
We have zero tolerance (and give no warnings) for a couple of important rules:
Tipping and Payment Language:
- You can mention the house fee. You can say you left a tip. You cannot name a specific tip amount if any sexual activity happened during the session. You cannot connect money to a specific act. Break this and you get a 28-day ban.
Location Requests:
- Never ask for the specific location of any parlor or AAMP. This counts as facilitation. 28-day ban, no warnings.
Flairs
Use the correct flair for your post.
Not sure which one to use? Check the Flair Guide.
Post Quality
Use basic punctuation and short paragraphs instead of big walls of text. A lot of folks read this sub on their phones, so this makes posts much easier to read.
Media Submissions
Photos and videos need clear consent and proper privacy protection.
Full requirements: Media Submission Rules
Automation and Enforcement
AutoMod removes a lot of posts automatically. If yours gets taken down and you think it was a mistake, message us in Modmail. Don't delete and repost.
30-Day Auto-Lock Policy
Posts auto-lock after 30 days.
Stay safe, stay respectful, and go get that happy ending the right way.
If you walked out with a smile and a water bottle in hand, you did the hobby proud.
We'll see you in the next thread.
- r/HEM_NSFW Mod Team
Revision: Rev. 2026.02 – July 10, 2026
Posted Aug 3, 2026, 2:01 PM UTC