41 [M4F] London/UK - Married and learning ENM

So to preface this - Married, been together for over 20 years, have two wonderful hilarious girls and we're exploring a Poly lifestyle now.

My wife has a boyfriend, they game together, chat like best friends, have 'interesting' chats, voice note, video call each other and meet for weekends together on occasions. An ENM dynamic for those that get the poly lingo. I however am still on the look for a partner - but admire the relationship my wife has, and for me the connection to someone is one of the biggest requirements (along with honesty, attraction and respect) for anything to develop into anything physical.

I'm not looking to disrupt my home life, nor someone else's, but just add to more to our enjoyments. I am happy with being a dad and husband, I just have a lot of desire, affection and friendship-ability in reserve 😂

So about me: Middle aged, Caucasian, on the heavier side of rugby player - not the sculpted physique, but more bulk and heft 😂, dark hair and beard (greying into my silver fox era, or so I try to convince myself), wear glasses and 6ft tall. Born and raised in East London, so forgive accent

Think of me as an overweight nerdy viking 🤣

I'm a geek in various aspects of life - I work within a technological profession, I watch anime, play video games and tabletop games, enjoy sci-fi shows and audiobooks, try to catch twitch streams when I'm not a human climbing frame to my kids 😁

I am straight, dating single women or 'sharing' if you're already in a relationship...so if you are in a poly-varient relationship, happy to chat and respect boundaries of your relationship or personal choices, but find more out about you as people than just a dynamic.

Even if you just want to chat and make a friend, feel free to message, more friends are never a bad thing. If you're looking for more then let me know...maybe something interesting is awaiting us if we chat.