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[M4F] 37 #Bengaluru #Dubai #online Kannadiga/Telugu/Hindi Male feeling lonely... Looking for F >30

NSFWM4F Karnataka / United Arab Emirates

Hi everyone,

I’m here because I’m struggling with something I know many of you can relate to—a dead bedroom. On the outside, my relationship looks fine. We share responsibilities, go about our daily lives, and keep things moving as they should. But behind closed doors, the intimacy has completely faded, and the silence it leaves is heavy. It’s a lonely kind of hurt, one that makes you question yourself, your worth, and even the foundation of your relationship.

I’m not here to bash my partner or look for drama. What I’m really hoping for is connection—a chat partner who understands what it feels like to live in this type of situation. I think having someone to talk to who “gets it” could make all the difference. Sometimes, the simple act of being heard, validated, and understood can take away a little of the weight we carry.

I want to be clear: I’m not looking to replace anyone or jump into something inappropriate. I just want an honest, safe space where I can talk openly and listen to someone else’s story too. It can be exhausting to keep all of this bottled up, and I think mutual conversation could be healing for both of us.

What I’m hoping to find is a respectful, mature, and empathetic person who either is going through or has gone through the same thing. Someone I can chat with about the ups, downs, frustrations, and maybe even the small wins when things feel a little lighter. Judgment-free, no expectations beyond genuine conversation.

If you’ve ever felt that deep emptiness of being in a relationship without intimacy, you probably know how isolating it feels. And if you’ve ever wished for someone who understands to talk to, maybe we can help each other. I believe that even though we can’t always change our situations overnight, having someone to share with can remind us that we’re not alone in this.

If this resonates with you, feel free to reach out. Let’s make this a space where we can talk honestly and without shame. Sometimes, just knowing that another person truly understands can be enough to get through another day.

I can speak kannada Telugu and Hindi fluently...

Posted Aug 3, 2026, 2:06 PM UTC · locked

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