Practicing sisters perspectives regarding polygamy

Assalamu Alaikum

I kindly ask for responses only from practicing sisters who see Islam and its guidance as the ultimate reference, not cultural norms or modern biases.

I’m a young, unmarried, practicing Muslim who owns a successful tech company. I got attracted to the idea of marrying 4 young, religious, beautiful wives.

What I believe I can offer:

  • I am financially capable of supporting multiple wives.
  • I would provide separate accommodation for each wife.
  • I would strive to treat all equally, to the best of my ability.
  • I would treat each wife with kindness, respect, and affection.
  • I would fulfill their emotional, spiritual, and physical needs.
  • I would be transparent from the very beginning about my intention to practice polygamy.

What I am not doing this for:

  • Not to show off.
  • Not to feed my ego
  • Not to treat women as objects.
  • Not out of arrogance.

Why I want this:

  • To raise the family.
  • To protect my chastity and lower my gaze.
  • To meet what I feel is a genuine emotional and physical need.

JazakAllah khair for reading.

I welcome thoughtful, faith-based perspectives from practicing sisters.

Posted Aug 4, 2026, 8:41 AM UTC

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