Dating a conventionally attractive man nightmare

I went out with a guy last month who was objectively very good looking, mixed race, tall, very charismatic, lakini weuh red flags from date one.

Every date somehow became a story about how women couldn't resist him. When we went out, clubbing or lounge, he would go to the washroom and come back announcing that some random woman touched him and was talking to him. He'd tell me women he was previously with stalked him, couldn't leave him alone, and that he had an ex who was crazy and still obsessed with him, he was even scared nkt! He would say how women sent him money, which he would send back because he's such a "good" person nkt! Let me not get started with how he said even men hit on him and how gays are so persistent OMG, sometimes i felt like he is DL because weuh

He was borderline narcissistic and so entitled, If we had an argument, he expected me to apologize first, chase after him, and convince him to come back. It was like he genuinely believed every woman should be competing for his approval. He would say how he's looking for peace and not drama, lakini he was the DRAMA baby, he would criticize even the little things i did, ati mbona nagongesha kikombe kwa meza lol smh dear Lord, he also would body shame people while we were outside especially women, talking about, "how is she so big" while pointing at her big ass, but when i tell you, this same woman they criticize are the ones they are mostly attracted to, cuz tell me why he follows the curvy babes on social media

The funny thing is, i'm also very attractive, when we were out people complimented us saying we look good together lakini WEUH! the moment another man looked in my direction, he'd get visibly uncomfortable. He constantly asked if I got hit on often. One time I was waiting for him in his apartment lobby and a couple of guys started chatting me up. Another time at the club, he went hto his bathroom sidequests i was at the table, a guy next to me started talking to me cordially no flirting , he came back and saw this and started shouting ati "i'm never taking you out again!!!" ati i'm flirting with everyone NKT NKT!!! He was completely fine talking about all the women who wanted him, wanting to make me feel jealous lakini he doen't know i know BALL!! and it infuriated him, at this point of me going out with him is because he sold me a story how he wanted to settle down and the no drama

Anyway, i ended the relationship when that entitlement of his turned into outright disrespect. I was spending more energy managing his ego, if i didn't text he would go silent on me and then blow up calling me stupid and i was acting like a b*tch, he would also get jealous and give me silent treatment, whatever he wanted he wanted it then and there, aiiiii apana

Has anyone else dated someone who was like this??? how did you deal with it also ebu niambie jina yake maybe we were dealing with the same jerk