Is an FLR or BDSM-centric marriage realistic in India? Looking for experiences and advice.

Hey everyone,

I’m reaching out to get some grounded perspective from folks living in India who are either in or looking for non-traditional marriage dynamics(like me) specifically FLR (Female-Led Relationships) or BDSM-oriented partnerships.

While I know traditional arranged marriage setups heavily lean toward conventional roles, I’m curious about the feasibility of building a long-term, legally wedded partnership around alternative dynamics here.

A few specific questions I’d love input on:

Finding compatible partners: How do people in India navigate finding a spouse who shares an interest in FLR or kink/BDSM? Are lifestyle platforms (like FetLife), dating apps, or niche groups the primary way, or have people successfully vetted partners through conventional dating/matrimony?

Navigating family & societal expectations: For those in an FLR or power-exchange marriage in India, how do you manage boundaries with extended family and social obligations?

Legal/Safety awareness: Any practical advice on ensuring clear consent, legal safety, and personal boundaries within non-conventional marriages in India?

I’d appreciate any genuine insights, personal experiences, or guidance on where/how to connect with like-minded communities safely. DMs are open if you prefer to share privately.

Thanks in advance!