R5 and Iracing Oscillation + Clipping + Light feel

I have an R5 bundle and use iracing mainly. Looking up settings and trying things out I now have myself eating between a supper weak/light steering or insanely high amounts of clipping and oscillation and no in-between

What is everyone running in the newest pithpise and iracing settings? I was under the understanding that rubbing everything at zero in pithouse minus the max NM and wheel speed and controlling it in iracing would give me the best control over clipping but im down to like 10% in iracing for ffb and the wheel is way too light. If I turn up up the thing goes wild and clips before I get into any turns really then stays hard red throughout the turn. Not just bouncing off it a couple times.