Quick question (pls don’t flame me)

I myself am not a Tamlin lover, i am Feysand all the way, but i could see why others like him. Quick question, I’ve seen a lot of posts and comments saying that Tamlin is gaslit and misunderstood, so does that mean that y’all are also Nesta fans? In my eyes, Tamlin and Nesta are similar in the way that people treat them, especially about their mental health. in ACOSF both Tamlin and Nesta are overlooked and basically told “just be happy”, while suffering from depression. Anyway, just wanted to see what the Tamlin/Nesta lovers crossover was.