Arya vs Flamme for couples who need realistic date ideas, not elaborate plans

I am looking at Arya and Flamme from a very practical angle: can either one help a couple do something that actually feels like a date when there is limited time, limited energy, and no appetite for turning every evening into a production?

A lot of date-idea lists sound good until they require shopping, reservations, a full free night, or both people being in exactly the right mood. The experiences that seem to matter more are usually smaller: a question that changes the tone of dinner, a playful challenge that does not feel embarrassing, a reason to put the phones away for twenty minutes, or an idea that still works after a long day.

Has anyone used Arya or Flamme specifically for that? I would like to know whether the suggestions felt adaptable to different budgets and energy levels, whether the apps offered enough variety, and whether both people could influence what came next. Did one lean more toward emotional conversation while the other was better at concrete activities? Did either one make intimacy feel natural rather than treating every date as a route to sex?

Most importantly, did you keep using it after the first burst of novelty? I am less interested in which app has more features and more interested in which one produced a few genuinely memorable evenings without creating another routine to maintain.