45 [M4F] #Hagerstown, MD Tall, thin, fit dom looking for young, curvy/chubby, busty, needy, clingy, open minded sub for irl tpe relationship/dynamic.

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Lets try this again lol I know you're out there! I am 45, 6' tall, 140 lbs, wiry/skinny/fit build, blue eyes, dark blond hair. Currently wearing glasses, clean shaven.

Im a soft/pleasure leaning dom with sadistic/feral side. I'm very sweet, affectionate and loving, but not afraid to be strict when necessary, and I have a low tolerance for drama and bs. A good communicator, honest, loyal, up front, very funny and fun to be around. I know what I want, what I deserve, and i wont settle. I have a high libido, im medium well endowed, and very kinky. 100% clean, 420 friendly. I am a domestic abuse survivor, and have some anxiety and ptsd as a result. Its well managed but you will need to be reassuring sometimes, and provide aftercare. Especially after all the disappointments and false starts ive had.

I am working out frequently, but my metabolism is very high, and my appetite is at its best when im in a good mood/place. It will be up to you to ensure this and then enjoy and support the results.

Im a gamer, I love movies, im into music (primarily electronic genres), i like to cook, and Im into camping, hiking and more. Im primarily an introvert but I do enjoy a good adventure. Sharing my interests and connecting/bonding over everything, not just sex, is important.

Im looking for a sex slave, as well as a relationship, someone that wants to worship me and be the best slut ever for me, and only me. Im typically attracted to curvy/chubby, busty girls but if you feel you can be what i need, shoot your shot. Im not typically into tattoos, I like natural skin, however, i am interested in getting you a tattoo to mark you as mine. Not into a lot of piercings either. I like clingy, needy girls who are going to obsess over me and make me their top priority, FROM THE BEGINNING. I get attached quickly if the connection/bond feels strong, if i feel safe to be myself, if I feel I can trust you. My primary love language is touch. Touching and being touched are so important for me, and i need as much of your touch, your body against mine, your hands on me, and vice versa, as i can get. I want it to be a cant get enough of each other, cant wait for me to come home and fill you up kind of thing because you need it. If you're extra sensitive in all the right places, even better.

Communicatiion, loyalty, trust and transparency/honesty are required. Im not here for drama or games. I want a slave/sub that can match my energy, my libido, my love and affection, my dirty mind and return everything i invest in her. You should be emotionally available, but also emotionally intelligent. Let me fuck you stupid, ruin you for others, and make you obsessed, addicted. let me help you become your true self. I am open to and prefer a live in situation, but at a minimum you should be able to spend time with me frequently, and talk to me throughout the day. Aftercare, cuddles etc are all on offer as well, snd expected in return. I have high expectations for my slave, if you cant meet them, or you're going to play games, you're not the girl im looking for. You should be ready to be completely commited to serving me, worshipping me and pleasing me, no matter what. The word no will exit your vocabulary. You will belong to me completely. I want you to lose control and never want it back. This is not a game, this is not pretend, i want something real. Open to inexperienced girls, so long as you're serious and ready. Your training begins online as i get to know you, build trust, and you prove yourself, to be followed quickly by irl. Claimimg you irl is very important, as well as seeing if the chemistry, bond, and connection are the same in person, and i dont want to wait too long to do that. You will relocate to me. I am open to moving elsewhere, once my lease is up. Tbh, I'm ready to go now, its a struggle with everything getting more expensive, and ive got a lot of memories in this state. If I didnt have a lease and stuff, i can work pretty much anywhere, but you can make things easier for me and I have plans, goals, for us.

I live alone in Hagerstown, MD, and I work M-F 6a-2:30pm. My free time is in the evenings and in weekends.

I'm waiting for you. Serious, cis females only. Please dont message me and leave me hanging or if you're going to ghost/delete your account. Do not reach out if you're not ready and able to commit and dedicate yourself to me, and of you're not ready to put in the work and be what i need. I am tired of girls who claim to belong to me, who are ready, only to disappear. The primary issue ive had with candidates so far is they are unable to meet my expectations initially, and give up, despite claims of dedication, belonging to me etc, and things are never able to move into real life. Promises and commitments are meaningless, unless backed up by actions, unless you actually follow through. Do not have others in your dms.

Kinks/things im into list: My primary kink is cumming inside/filling you up, especially if you want/need it. Im also into breeding but im not currently in a financial position to have a child. I'm also into oral both ways (ive only ever come from oral once, I can be a challenge, love giving oral), kissing, touching, skin on skin contact, cuddling, anal, anal play/eating ass, cnc, public play, tpe, spanking, biting, watersports, threesomes, free use (for me only), restraint, edging, teasing, sexting, sexy games, toy play, breast play/anr, biting, orgasm control. I love to give praise, goals, rewards, etc. Open to others. Possibly interested in exploring prostate stimulation, for bigger, longer orgasms.

I have lots of fantasies i want to make a reality too.

Not into: scat or anything that could cause permanent harm.

Posted Aug 4, 2026, 9:04 AM UTC

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