[M4F] 40 #USA/online - looking for a long term submissive

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Writing down all that you want out of a sub and somehow compressing it into a few words is probably a fairly hard task but I will try.

I have been into dominance before it was probably called that - in my teens. And years have passed with several wonderful past bonds with many wonderful humans.

My bonds are slow and long term and very real - not a 'dynamic' or some sort of role play.

I tend to control, lead and mentor a younger female (over 18 of course) in multiple aspects of her life (to the extent she allows and that will eventually be discussed privately).

I am fairly successful myself as the owner of a company and considered by many to be highly accomplished in my field. I dont use any substances. And I take care of myself and am well built with years of regular exercise.

An ideal sub would want to know me first and vice versa (this could take days!). She would share a desire to improve and succeed and to be led. And eventually in private moments, to do things that make her think 'this should stay a secret between us daddy.. shhhh'

I am probably somewhat rambling at this point but you get the idea. This post is NOT about a role play or hookup. Neither is it about marriage. A dom sub bond when real goes deeper (my sub from 2 decades ago occasionally messages me about life problems she cant share elsewhere - after being married and with kids!).

Don't hesitate to dm me. Write 'pineapple' in your first sentence to show me you read all of it. Thank you for your attention.

Posted Aug 5, 2026, 1:22 PM UTC

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