I had a lot of fun bottoming but I'm afraid of the risks?

I bottomed before and it was fun other than he was too big. So I'm thinking of trying it again with a smaller guy but I'm worried about the risks. Because they say that gay anal is the riskiest form of sex.

Is there good condoms for anal especially considering that my ass is pretty tight? Or should I make sure his dick isn't too fat so they'll be less chance of the condom ripping?

Or is there any other methods to make sure I stay safe that I can do?