The way my GF has sex with me just turns me off so much

We only had sex once and Im sure it's going to improve but I want to ask for an advice on how to communicate this.

For context I've had 80+ sexual partners and it's enjoyable 95% of times. Doesn't matter if the girl is vanilla or kinky, majority of women just lay there and let me be in charge and do all the work with them ocasionally getting on top and riding me or giving me a bj.

The only time I don't enjoy it is when the girl turn into this freak and "fucks me back". What I mean by this is when they just move non-stop and try bouncing on it in every position.

Im already hardcore fucking her (choking, pulling her hair and pinning her down) so when she is also in the hardcore mode and tries to make it even more hardcore it just kills it for me lol.

Doggy? She will bounce back hard. Missionary? She will hold me and bounce back hard. Cowgirl? Bounce back on it. They move nonstop trying to fuck me back. Major turn off. It kept stressing me out like she is going to break my dick in half if she accidentaly misses.

Also, she screams and talks like a 80s pornstar. Like she goes into this hardcore dominant mode (while still being submissive) and just screams FUCK ME HARDER, YES JUST LIKE THAT 😈😈😈😈. Major turn off.

Sucking my dick? Its again very agressive like a hungry dog and me being European in the US with uncut dick, i dont think she is used to it and it hurts. Idk if she was using teeth or pulling it back too much.

So, 3 things.

- Yelling like a 80s pornstar

- Bouncing back on it hard

- Aggressive blowjob thats painful

Out of 80+ women ive had sex with this is only 3rd woman that was this way and they all act exactly like this!!!. I didnt care much in the past since it was just casual, but im trying to date this girl.

If you're like this - absolutely no judgement. We all like different things but its just not my preference. How can I talk to her about this?