M33 switch looking for a soft Dom to help support my submissive side

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Hey there,

I'm Kyle. Primarily I'm a daddy Dom and handler for 3 beautiful pups. I've worked hard to build my pack and I wouldn't trade that progress for the world. When I started out though, I was a total sub bottom. Time, effort, and self reflection helped me to find my place in the kink community but I would still say that my mentality is 80% dominant, and 20% submissive.

The missing piece in my dynamic is that outlet for the 20% of me that still needs to submit, or at least have a Dom mentor or coach I can go to. I'm flexible on the form that takes! You could be a dominant looking for a submissive with no relation to my dynamic, you could be a Dom/daddy that wants a hierarchical setup and really become a part of the family, or you could be a person with a group or sub of your own who wants a partner and equal to be able to play and express yourself with. The chemistry is really what matters to me.

I'm 6'2" and 240lbs. Typical dad bod with a bit of hair, a nice ass and a 6.5" very thick cock my pups all seem to enjoy. I'm not winning any beauty contests, but I am a patron of the real world and happy with who and what I am. Any dynamic would have to be based on more than just sex for obvious reasons. The goal would be similar to a FWB but with some kind of a background power dynamic based on the way things are established.

My kinks are many and varied, both as a Dom and a sub, my top ones are bondage, edging, toys, raceplay, incest play, spanking, name calling, body writing, and underwear. I also love pup play but firmly from a dominant perspective.

Professionally I work at a large museum and love the work I do. In what spare time I can find I enjoy video games, watching TV shows, taking road trips and traveling, or working around the house.

There's lots more to know about me but I assume that will come with time as most things do. If you have made it this far congratulations! You're already on your way to getting to know me. Throw in a banana emoji somewhere in your message to let me know you've Reddit! (Yeah I love Dad jokes sorry)

All the best,

Kyle

Posted Aug 5, 2026, 1:34 PM UTC

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