47 [M4F] #NJ - Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

Male

Thank you for reading my post. I am just throwing this out there as one of many men that are looking for something that is missing in their live. So here is my shot in hopes this resonates with some special woman.

Like most of you, I feel that there is something missing in my life. Like being stuck in the movie Ground Hog Day, just repeating the same day over and over again. I am a Husband, Father, and a Friend. But I don’t feel seen or heard. No one asks me about my day or how I am doing. Right, wrong, or indifferent, I feel like a ghost in my own life. An unseen force that binds everything together.

*notabot.

I am looking for a woman that can use some of me in her life, a bright spot in the darkness of loneliness so to speak. I'm in this for the long haul. To find and build a connection, not something quick and fleeting.

When I am not working from home, I travel all over the state and the NYC metro area. I am open to chat throughout the day as well as the night. I will not ghost you and I'm not a flake, and certainly not low effort. Please match my energy and commitment.

Posted Aug 5, 2026, 1:35 PM UTC

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