i'm already at my third year, yet i feel like i have no social life

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Problem/Goal: Hello !! I'm an incoming third year (19F) and I feel like I still have no social life.

Context: I like to keep my circle small. I have friends, but their not in one friend group. For example si Friend A and si Friend B are my friends pero they are not from the same group of friends. Case in point, Friend A is friend ko from back home and si Friend B college friend ko (SANA GETS NIYO).

However, since I have somewhat strict parents, medyo mahirap sumabay sa mga sponty trip nila. As much as I want to join orgs, I don't have an org that I'm really passionate about. When I did, let's just say nagkanda leche leche lang kami lahat doon due to internal conflicts. So medyo scared na ako sa big groups. For extra curriculars naman, I met friends, pero hindi sila yung type of friends na magyaya or ma-maintain mo since di mo na sila makakausap as much.

Hence, why I am here asking for help. I'm a friendly person naman. Mahirap lang ako yayain cause my parents are strict and takot din ako "tumakas" per se. So... Sorry if magulo or ang boring kong tao. I just wanna socialize with people I have met in school and hang out with them as well.

Previous Attempts: N/A.

I just wanna have long-term friends <3. Don't get me wrong, I put in the effort din kaso... ayon. SORRY IF MAGULO HUHUUH

Posted Aug 5, 2026, 1:35 PM UTC

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