Looking for a Safe Subliminal to Help Me Reconnect With My Boyfriend After 8 Months of OCD and Anxiety

Subliminal

Hey guys, I’m looking for a subliminal that can help strengthen the love, happiness, attraction, intimacy, and overall health of my relationship.

I love my boyfriend deeply, but I struggle with OCD and anxiety, which can make me overanalyse my feelings and constantly check whether I feel enough love, attraction, happiness, or connection. The more I analyse everything, the more emotionally numb, disconnected, or pressured I can feel.

Recently, this has also affected intimacy. I have found it difficult to feel relaxed, present, happy, or experience pleasure during sex. This is very shocking and upsetting for me because I have never experienced this before, and it does not feel like the normal me. I believe the anxiety, pressure, emotional exhaustion, and constant checking have made it harder for me to enjoy natural feelings.

I keep finding subliminals that are made to make a desired person fall in love with you, but I rarely find subliminals that focus on helping you feel deeply in love, connected, attracted, peaceful, and happy with the partner you already have.

I would love something focused on:

  • Deep and healthy mutual love
  • Emotional and physical attraction
  • Feeling happy, safe, relaxed, and present during intimacy
  • Enjoying affection and sex naturally
  • A healthy and satisfying intimate relationship for both partners
  • Strong communication, loyalty, trust, and understanding
  • Emotional, mental, and physical well-being for both of us
  • Feeling secure and peaceful in the relationship
  • Releasing fear, numbness, pressure, and overthinking
  • Appreciating each other and growing closer naturally
  • A loving, stable, long-lasting, and healthy future together
  • Protection from negativity, unhealthy attachment, jealousy, and outside interference

I do not want anything controlling, obsessive, forced, or unhealthy. I genuinely love my boyfriend and only want to feel like myself again, enjoy our relationship naturally, and create a healthy connection where both of us feel loved, happy, safe, and fulfilled.

Does anyone know a safe subliminal like this? Also, are there any trusted subliminal makers who accept custom requests and could create something based on this situation? A lot of the themes have involved my relationship, love, loyalty, attraction, identity, intimacy, and fears about what certain thoughts or feelings might mean. I do not want to share the exact details because they are very personal, but the constant cycle of intrusive thoughts, checking my emotions, looking for certainty, and monitoring my reactions has left me mentally exhausted.

I am currently getting professional treatment and working on my OCD. I understand that a subliminal should not replace therapy, and I am not expecting it to magically cure me. I just want something positive as an extra push alongside my treatment—something that helps me feel calmer, safer, more present, hopeful, and connected to myself and my relationship.

The part that scares me the most right now is intimacy. Recently, when I was physically intimate with my boyfriend, I felt almost nothing—no pleasure, excitement, or emotional connection in that moment. This was extremely shocking for me because I had never experienced that before. I became terrified and started wondering whether it meant something was permanently wrong with me or my relationship

love all thank u

Posted Aug 5, 2026, 1:35 PM UTC

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