I got my hair relaxed after 13 weeks, and I'm trying to figure out what's going on with the right side and the middle of my hair. 

Overall, my hair actually feels healthier and stronger than it has in a while. I wash it weekly after swimming using a clarifying shampoo, then a hydrating shampoo, sometimes a bond builder, and always a deep conditioner.

The issue is that the right side is consistently shorter than the left, even after growing out from a blunt trim. The only thing I know I do differently is that I sleep on my right side. I get a trim every 3-6 months

I've also developed a gap in the middle of my hair, which seems to be a more recent issue (less than a year). I've been working on growing out a breakage at my crown since 2023 and its finally been improving, although it's still shorter than the rest of my hair.

For styling, about twice a week I wear a headband, a low ponytail with a claw clip or low bun. More recently I've been wearing half wigs with less than an inch of leave out at the front. Occasionally I wear Fulani cornrows with a half wig. I've had this unevenness for few years now, so I don't think the half wigs or cornrows are the main cause. Could the low ponytail and claw clip be contributing to the uneven growth or breakage?

I'm also wondering if I'm clarifying too often, whether I should be using a bond builder every week, or if sleeping on my right side could really make that much of a difference.

My hair hasn't been in its best condition since 2023. Even back then the right side was shorter, but overall my hair looked much healthier than it does now.

Has anyone experienced something similar or have any suggestions? I wish my hair could just tell me what's wrong! 😭😭

Still struggling with uneven length ,what am I missing?