Semi retired for the moment

So, after a 4th layoff in tech (I’m a Gen X’er, but I did well with my money) I’m like F’it I’m semi retired. I stopped playing video games (except for phone games) early in my PS3 years. Work, family, being and overly responsible adult, you get the drift. I stopped having fun.

I have two PS3’s mainly because the blue ray drives are good for movies and most of the games I played were racing, Move games with my daughter, and Disney Infinity. She’s in college but we still play it from time to time. But I want to get into more gaming. I JB my fat PS3, upgraded the 40gb drive with an old 320gb I had and I want to get into stuff. But I realize my hand coordination with the controllers has always sucked. What games are good to start with in order to build up my dexterity? I remember years ago getting a used copy of rainbow six and all I did was die. I think that’s why I stopped playing. Gaming passed me by. Any suggestions would help an… ahem… ‘older’ gentleman.