36 [M4F] #London - Long term arrangement that burns and builds at the right pace

I'm here to make someone feel special. If you like attention, affection, compliments, and being unashamedly enthusiastic about your interests with a person that gets it.

6’1" Londoner, Tall, fit, brown skinned with a full head of dark hair. White-collar professional by day often spillingover into evenings, but I always make time to be attentive. Looking for genuine chemistry. If you’ve ever nerd-ed out over a perfectly balanced board game mechanic then we will get along

I am married and a father too therefore not looking to disrupt either of our situations. Having said that marriage has drifted into dead-bedroom territory. Somewhere along the way, its turned into logistics, routines, and polite conversations. It’s fine… just not fulfilling.

Physically solid, emotionally starved. I just want to feel that spark again. Intimacy, laughter, mutual obsession, someone I look forward to hearing from every day. I’ll be honest: what draws me in is kind of connection you feel in your chest when the conversation hits that weirdly perfect rhythm. The kind that makes the rest of your day feel lighter

What I’m looking for
You’re clever, warm, interesting and interested to take the conversation rolling. You’ve got things you’re passionate about and want someone to really see you. Maybe you’re in a similar situation, or just open to something meaningful but outside the lines. We can take it slow. Build trust. Flirt. Vent. Daydream. I don't have a body type but soft around the middle is a turn on.

I am looking for a long-term, exclusive arrangement that burns and builds at the right pace. I am hoping to find a genuine connection.

No pressure. No scripts. Just something that actually feels real again and two adults choosing to enjoy something that feels good in a world that often doesn’t.