So a couple weeks ago, I posted that I had recently gotten sober from smoking weed daily, was working on getting over a girl that I had strong feelings for, and was slowly starting to work out daily, all while dealing with frustration and depression from not having a relationship in my entire life, and not having sex in 8 years.

I’ve not been able to join the MMA gym that I mentioned yet, waiting til August 11th to fix a slight toe injury, then that will be part of my daily routine.

After my post, an amazing woman reached out to me on here and we started messaging daily, which progressed into phone calls/facetime. Last night, I drove to meet her in New York and we hooked up!! She gave me one of the best nights and mornings of my life.

On top of that, I have always been self conscious of my teeth and my smile. I didn’t even consider that this could ever be a possibility, but the woman I met on here now wants to help me financially to improve my smile and help build my confidence, simply because she thinks I’m a good person and deserve to be happy; this is enough to make me cry. I have never been able to smile comfortably around people, and I have gone my entire life basically hating what I saw in the mirror.

So, not only did my initial Toastme get me laid, it has also brought someone into my life who I will consider a lifelong friend, and someone who sees that I try my best to be a good person, and genuinely wants to help me.

I am speechless. Mindblown. I could have never asked for this; I take none of it for granted, and I am eternally grateful for everything that has happened (and is still happening).

For those of you who supported me last time, your words of encouragement and support have meant so much, and I appreciate each and every one of you. Because of that, I had to come and share this update and let you all know that my life has improved in a matter of weeks, all from a post on Reddit that I could not have been any more vulnerable in.

The world can be a very good place, and not all people are assholes. Thanks for showing me how many of you care. And, for as much as all of you supported me, how about a shoutout to this amazing woman who has entered my life like an absolute angel from heaven. 

I can’t post her here because she’d rather remain anonymous for a few reasons… but it doesn’t change the fact that she has basically saved me from two of my deepest struggles in life. What more could I ask for?

p.s. I know my hair is a bit messy, it was a long night and 2 hour drive home 😉 

✌️ 

UPDATE: No longer without sex for 8 years!! Posting here has been one of the best things I’ve ever done (read entire post)