Just looking for someone to talk to
I’m going through a pretty complicated relationship situation right now and honestly I just need someone to talk to. I’m not really looking for someone to tell me what I should do or judge the situation. I think I just need somewhere to get some of what’s going through my head out.
I’m in a long-distance relationship with someone I love very much, but there’s a lot of uncertainty surrounding our future. Lately our communication has changed and I don’t feel the same excitement from her that I used to. Sometimes I’ll get little pieces of it and feel like everything is still there, and then she pulls away again. I’m finding myself constantly wondering what changed and whether I’m being patient with someone going through a difficult time or slowly accepting a situation that is hurting me.
The hardest part is that I don’t really question whether she loves me. I question whether circumstances, fear and the unknown are eventually going to be stronger than what we have. I’ve spent so much time trying to understand what she’s feeling that I’m starting to realize I haven’t paid enough attention to what all of this is doing to me.
Anyway, I could really just use someone to talk to who doesn’t mind listening while I try to sort through my head. I’m a pretty open person and obviously happy to listen to whatever you have going on too.
Feel free to DM me
Posted Aug 8, 2026, 5:30 PM UTC