Has anyone else experienced this

Im a year postpartum and I've been taking Sex and relationships slow. Ive talked to a few guys here n there nothing I tried to take serious but now some guys are trying to actually be serious and take me out more. Im excited to hear it but the actual process of getting a sitter and getting myself ready for anything other than work or mom activities makes me uninterested in going out even my home girl comes to the house for hangouts! So Ig im askin is my spark gone or is it just I haven't talked to anyone who's stimulating me mentally. I do wanna say some of the guys im talking to I have wanted to talk to for a while and now it's just like sexual thoughts and thoughts outside of being mother don't excite me. They actually give me anxiety or something. And like I used to be attracted to both men and women but lately it's like nobody's attractive. Like they aren't ugly but nobody gets me hot and bothered