42 [m4f] #nyc - looking for a discreet friend with benefits to change up the routine

Like most people here, I am generally pretty happy with my situation and not looking to change anything at home. But the monotony of the routine does get at me sometimes. Definitely miss flirting and the excitement of meeting someone new.

Some details about me:

Married 15 years, no kids, live in Manhattan. Professional career but work remotely with flexible schedule, not a corporate job in the office.

I am 5ft 11, 175, clean cut, clean shaven, short brown hair, Attractive guy but got stuck with these damn brown eyes that totally killed my chances at a modeling career. In decent shape with an athletic build - not the toned college kid I once was but not a dad bod, somewhere in between and still work out regularly. Decently hung. More wild than mild in the bedroom. Nothing too crazy but not too bashful to talk kinks and fantasies when the time is right.

Love exploring the city and finding new places to grab a drink and people watch. I am equally comfortable in a nice cocktail lounge or a dive bar. I like a wide variety of music. I enjoy sports but typically don’t rearrange my schedule to watch a game (unless the Knicks are in the finals of course). I run a lot. Want to go for a run?

Not sure what I am expecting to find here if anything, but maybe start with just chatting first and see if it leads to drinks and then who knows. A discreet friends with benefits situation would be ideal.