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Zebo9366

27 [M4F] #Seattle Looking for the love of my life and best friend

Hello!

I have never been very good at these, but I figure I'd give this a shot, because who knows where I will meet the LOML.

I am also not quite sure whats important here, but I wanna give the best self-description I can.

- 27 years old

- Agender, but AMAB, and I present pretty masculine. Use whatever pronouns you like.

- 6'3"

- 190lbs

- Childfree

I am definately a nerd and a bit of a homebody, but I have been trying quite a few new things lately. I grew up very anxious and with mental health struggles that I had to work through, so I have quite a soft spot and patience for others that feel out of place in the world. I greatly value the friends I have collected over the years and hope to make more friends that value genuine connection as much as I do. While I do still have some struggles of my own, I apsire to nothing more than being a safe space for those around me.

To me, love is best phrased as "friendship that's caught fire". I want a friend first, partner second, and lover third. I beleive in open communication, and that all relationships take effort, but the right relationship is well-worth the effort. I want someone to explore life with, chase dreams with, and celebrate milestones with. Someone to be excited to come home to, and someone who is excited to come home to me.

As for hobbies and interests, I have quite a few, but here are some:

- Reading fantasy/sci-fi books

- Bingeing new shows I fall in love with

- Self-hosting servers and digital independence

- DIY projects

- Video games (mostly with friends, but some on my own)

- Recently gotten into Line Dancing (not very good, but its a nice way to spend an evening)

- Various sports I am trying out for the first time in years

- Staying healthy

- Snuggling cats and people

- Art (Early stages of learning to draw, but I am a huge fan of cute art. Idk what it is, but it FUELS me.)

- Learning new things and learning about others

Posted Aug 10, 2026, 4:18 PM UTC

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