Why is giving up control so intensely hot?
Hi! F(24) here.
I am getting more horny every single day. Before this, my life was so busy that I barely had time to even think about it. But my life slowed down a lot in the past month and a half, and now my sex drive has gone crazy.
Lately, I’ve started diving into BDSM (I mentioned this in a previous post) and have been experimenting with instructed masturbation. Honestly? It is driving me absolutely insane. There is something so intensely hot about giving up control and following commands. Every single instruction leaves me completely dripping wet and desperate for more.
I don't know if this is a normal reaction, or what else I can do to improve the experience. I really want to try more things, so please leave your best ideas and recommendations below!
Posted Aug 10, 2026, 4:18 PM UTC