53 [M4F] #Alameda - s*x on the side is pretty easy to find but I want…

I’ve found that I must not be too terrible on the eyes and I must be nice/decent enough personality wise. Or maybe my mixed ethnicity makes people curious. Or my light skin and educated manner makes me a “more approachable Black(ish) man”. lol someone literally said that last part about me, though I added the “ish”! I’m likely not from where you are from but I’m here now so I get it - I guess. :)
At any rate it doesn’t seem to be that difficult to find someone if I just want random sex. The thing is I do not want that. What I want is someone I can TRUST literally with my livelihood. I’ve built a good life and am just looking for ONE person to meet up with ogoing to make it even better with that special spark/electricity/passion/kink/insatiability that I no longer have at home. You should have the same needs, because I want to be that for you as well. It’s my kink.
I’m not too concerned with how hot you are or any of the usual BS I seem to see on here. I’m interested in your passion, openness, desire, and let’s face it - availability ongoing. Speaking of availability I understand if we have to wait until the kids go back to school.
So this post may not be the usual, but IMHO you should want more/better than the usual. If you think we could be that for each other based on what I’ve said, let me know with a reasonably thoughtful reply.
You and all your secrets are safe with me. I’m looking for the same.